The book is a testament of a life that sowed in pain and tears but reaped in joy. It speaks to the gamut by which one who possesses a special call from God is tried and tested before being used. It also reflects the impact of generational curses. You are challenged to read with wisdom, compassion and an open mind. Although there is focus on the author's life and its encumbrances, the bigger picture of God s redemptive power is central. This book was written to educate and motivate those who want to comprehend God s will for their lives and relationships; and those who desire to walk away from abusive relationships without feeling condemned. Unless we know how relationships are meant to function and what it takes to keep them growing, we can reach breaking point without knowing why we got there. Persons encountering adversities such as parental problems, marital problems, trust issues, spiritual issues, identity issues, self-esteem issues and diverse personal struggles may discover a way out. The author was fortunate enough to see the light at the end of my tunnel.